Although falling in love with a co-worker look like a great and wonderful thing, there are things that you still need to consider before you push through the idea. There are a couple of pointers that you got to check on, consider and decide on.
Marital Status Check - A Must!
Yes. She looks flashy. Her legs are simply gorgeous. When she talks, it's like you here angels are singing. And when she looks your way, it just makes your day! You practically are attracted to her. She is one of the major reasons why you go to work. But do you really know her already? It matters to probe. Before she totally sweep you off your feet, it's best to ask around first. For all you know she might be married. Or worse, divorced thrice! It helps to know that you are not crushing anyone else's balls by making your way through winning her heart.
Yes. She looks flashy. Her legs are simply gorgeous. When she talks, it's like you here angels are singing. And when she looks your way, it just makes your day! You practically are attracted to her. She is one of the major reasons why you go to work. But do you really know her already? It matters to probe. Before she totally sweep you off your feet, it's best to ask around first. For all you know she might be married. Or worse, divorced thrice! It helps to know that you are not crushing anyone else's balls by making your way through winning her heart.
The more information you get to know about her, the higher the possibility of you having more things to consider. Think about it. If she's divorced, does she have kids? Are you willing to have a relationship with someone who's got an extra baggage? If she's married, we both know that she's off limits. And if you happen to be someone who doesn't care about destroying a family just to get laid, you have to be ready with the possible horrible situations you are going to put yourself into after your actions. Well, if she happens to be single and free, you are one lucky bastard.
If It's Against Company Policy...
This can be one serious problem you will have to face the moment you decide on pushing through having a romantic relationship with a co-worker. Are you ready to lose your job? We all know the reasons why most companies do not promote and support office love affairs. It may come across your professionalism and affect your work ethics. There will be times that it'll be helpful, yes. When the two of you are in a good mood, it may do you good and produce good outputs. However, if you two end up fighting, which is not impossible to happen, you two may become a liability to your company. So, if having a romantic relationship with a co-worker is not allowed in your work place, you have a decision to make. Will you go for it and leave your job, or will the two of you keep it a secret and just wait for the moment your little secret to get exposed?
This can be one serious problem you will have to face the moment you decide on pushing through having a romantic relationship with a co-worker. Are you ready to lose your job? We all know the reasons why most companies do not promote and support office love affairs. It may come across your professionalism and affect your work ethics. There will be times that it'll be helpful, yes. When the two of you are in a good mood, it may do you good and produce good outputs. However, if you two end up fighting, which is not impossible to happen, you two may become a liability to your company. So, if having a romantic relationship with a co-worker is not allowed in your work place, you have a decision to make. Will you go for it and leave your job, or will the two of you keep it a secret and just wait for the moment your little secret to get exposed?
To Step Forward or To Stay Put?
The moment you have weighed every possible pros and cons, it will always be up to you. Will you take the big leap or just stay where you are and try to forget about your feelings? Either way, you will still get affected. Whether you get brave or go chicken, you could still get a dose of pain. So, if you really love her, I suggest that you go for it and face all the consequences of your actions. You might lose your quest for love but tomorrow's another day.
The moment you have weighed every possible pros and cons, it will always be up to you. Will you take the big leap or just stay where you are and try to forget about your feelings? Either way, you will still get affected. Whether you get brave or go chicken, you could still get a dose of pain. So, if you really love her, I suggest that you go for it and face all the consequences of your actions. You might lose your quest for love but tomorrow's another day.
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