I Love My Co-Worker - Now What?

Although falling in love with a co-worker look like a great and wonderful thing, there are things that you still need to consider before you push through the idea. There are a couple of pointers that you got to check on, consider and decide on.

Marital Status Check - A Must!
Yes. She looks flashy. Her legs are simply gorgeous. When she talks, it's like you here angels are singing. And when she looks your way, it just makes your day! You practically are attracted to her. She is one of the major reasons why you go to work. But do you really know her already? It matters to probe. Before she totally sweep you off your feet, it's best to ask around first. For all you know she might be married. Or worse, divorced thrice! It helps to know that you are not crushing anyone else's balls by making your way through winning her heart.

The more information you get to know about her, the higher the possibility of you having more things to consider. Think about it. If she's divorced, does she have kids? Are you willing to have a relationship with someone who's got an extra baggage? If she's married, we both know that she's off limits. And if you happen to be someone who doesn't care about destroying a family just to get laid, you have to be ready with the possible horrible situations you are going to put yourself into after your actions. Well, if she happens to be single and free, you are one lucky bastard.

If It's Against Company Policy...
This can be one serious problem you will have to face the moment you decide on pushing through having a romantic relationship with a co-worker. Are you ready to lose your job? We all know the reasons why most companies do not promote and support office love affairs. It may come across your professionalism and affect your work ethics. There will be times that it'll be helpful, yes. When the two of you are in a good mood, it may do you good and produce good outputs. However, if you two end up fighting, which is not impossible to happen, you two may become a liability to your company. So, if having a romantic relationship with a co-worker is not allowed in your work place, you have a decision to make. Will you go for it and leave your job, or will the two of you keep it a secret and just wait for the moment your little secret to get exposed?

To Step Forward or To Stay Put?
The moment you have weighed every possible pros and cons, it will always be up to you. Will you take the big leap or just stay where you are and try to forget about your feelings? Either way, you will still get affected. Whether you get brave or go chicken, you could still get a dose of pain. So, if you really love her, I suggest that you go for it and face all the consequences of your actions. You might lose your quest for love but tomorrow's another day.

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Loving Myself First!

Loving Myself First!

Loving Myself First!

There is nothing more than to love ourselves first! Most unhappy people have a very poor relationship with themselves and many times, they did not know that they do not know how to love themselves at all?

When our mind is full of excuses and weak desires, our inner self will probably be weak too. Often, we lean on the support of others in the hope to get that comfort. Such moment don't last long. The only way we can achieve anything is when we are committed to improving our relationship with ourselves first.

After all, what can an empty vessel contribute when it is empty? Only when we filled our own vessel with lots of goodness and strength, we then can in turn motivate and contribute positiveness to the people around us!

We must learn to raise our acceptance to people who are better than us, because they will inspire and motivate us. Never be afraid to unlearn in order to learn. Aligning our state of mind and emotions, we will start to experience better overall life results with the people around us and as well as the way we go about doing our task!

It is only when we stop being victims in our own life and take full responsibilities with our own life results, and that is the time when we unleash to be a quiet leader in our own life, innovating good changes all year round. We have the absolute power to use good words to affect our mind and emotional states. Using word 'must' fire off a greater sense of urgency and motivation!

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How To Approach Women

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How To Approach Women

You should realize before you approach women that most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default thing: Dumb look, compliment. Also, you can’t BORE when you first approach women. If she’s most likely got a boring life like everyone else, and you do something that every one of the other 499 guys she’s going to walk by this month did, then you’re probably not going to attract any special attention. If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of the game.

This is fun, isn’t it? Bet you never thought you’d be thinking like a woman, did ya? What are a few things you might do to? Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring, predictable, “nice” loser guys that have approached her? And BE interesting, attractive, attention-getting in a way that makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of spice in her life?

As you may have already predicted, I have a few more ideas (but don’t let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as you get a chance). To start with, you’d probably want to get rid of the “Wow, you’re a beautiful woman, and I’m just an average guy admiring you” vibe. That’s not helping. Next, you could take a moment and think about how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might act, then choose that style.

My experience is that if you take an attitude of “I guess fate has good taste putting us in the same place, now let’s see if you have a personality to match your looks”, then stir in a generous portion of Cocky and Funny, you’re likely to do well.

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